Identifying Love ?

It's the month of February , Valentine's around , it's the month of Love!

I am not going into the debate of whether we must celebrate Valentine or not ; I fund it stupid (to me at least ! ) enough when people argue that we Indians blindly copying Western culture! Ohh come on , we should blindly copy any X , Y , Z if it is for good! Ok , i agree something as divine and great as Love cannot be constrained in a day or two and neither it "should" be tried to. But why do we have established habits of seeing the negative side of things only?
I got this from my manager (and he from a 16th century quote) that there is nothing to prove for sure that God exists and so we can do with not assuming his existence but then why take the risk of if actually he does?
Got my point ? All I am trying is that what wrong it can do if we allocate a day for Love , let's do it and do it with grace and enthuthiasm.
Now many a times all those of you who have been in love , half-love , attraction or got chance to be in vicinity of this divine feeling must have asked yourself if you really are in love? To me it is a sacred feeling and so are all the words that try and describe the plethora of colors and the myriads of human feelings and emotions. The faculty to actually feel them might be one for common distribution but the faculty to appreciate them and/or respect them is very limited in my opinion. I for one is very circumspect and conscious (and will always be! ) of these words like love , feelings , respect , care , affection ; I do not use them at my will and always feel a bit scared to actually use them! My philosophy for all these is pretty simple , I understand that yes you really feel them at some point of time but being a believer in the continuity of things , I guess the feelings are gradual and do not trigger a digital phenomenon ever( At least they should not!).
So one can never actually have that level where you suddenly can say that yes I am "now" in love , because may be you left that point of entrance a long time back. So it is very essential that you respect the continuity and to be very sure of things and also to avoid any issues , you relax and "tell yourself" that yes you are and it is for "real"!
When should one do that ? Umm... that's a question of sorts. Common symptoms are for sure attraction , desire to be together , close to the person you are falling for , day dreaming about him/her is one of them as well. Also one must try and find out things in their common habits, like if you are a music addict and when some romantic song is on , if you are constantly thinking of someone , that might be a good bet to believe that you have already fallen for the person!
Try this : listening to something like : "tujh mein rab dikhta hai ..." (ofcourse don't be conscious about things) and you are smiling within and on the exterior with some images of someone , then you bet you are in love! ;)
Also remember that elation reminds you of your beloved , excitement points to her , the person with whom you are confused about to share your grief with is your beloved as well(Because you want to vent everything in your heart to him/her but also do not wish to put grimness on his/her face!). The person you are perhaps most scared of from an emotional point of view , the person you are least scared of from a physical point of view, the person who does not make you laugh out loud that much ,but you always makes you wear a sweet little smile on your face because the satisfaction is on a higher level of human existence!

Happy to hear if you guys have some nice ways to recognise;)

A very happy Valentine to all!

God Bless,
Anil